The Letter That Never Came: A Seattle Man’s Despair Over a Broken Heart
E.A. Kilder took his own life at the Hotel Metropole after missing a crucial message from his sweetheart, leaving behind only a tragic note to his brother.
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DID NOT GET THE LETTER Kilder Committed Suicide In His Despair.
SEATTLE, Wash., March 23.—The receipt of a letter would have saved E. A. Kilder's life.
Tuesday afternoon the arrival at the Wayne Hotel of W. K. Kilder, of Ellensburg, a brother of E. A. Kilder, who committed suicide at the Hotel Metropole last Wednesday night, after he had signed the register, Mr. Kilder asked if any mail had been received at the house for his brother.
He was handed one, and, after he had read the address, cried, "Oh, my God! If my brother had but received this letter it would have saved his life."
The letter was inclosed in a plain, square envelope.
The suicide's brother went on to explain that Kilder had been jilted by a woman, and that for some time he had been awaiting a letter from her. He had often said that if he did not soon hear from his sweetheart he would take his life.
Upon inquiry at the Hotel Metropole it was found that the day before his suicide E. A. Kilder told one of the chambermaids of the house that if he didn't get a letter that day he would kill himself.
Nothing was thought of this threat and the next morning Kilder was found dead in bed with a bullet in his brain.
Kilder usually stopped at the Wayne Hotel when he visited downtown, and his mail was always sent there. The last time he came in this city, however, he decided to go to the Metropole, and every day he would telephone down to the Wayne Hotel for mail. Two days before his death he neglected the telephone, and the letter he missed for arrived and remained in the box in his desk at the office.
This 1906 tragedy highlights the intense social pressure surrounding courtship and the devastating consequences of romantic rejection in an era before modern mental health resources. While today we might view such despair through the lens of clinical depression or anxiety, the contemporary press framed it as a moral failing or a 'jilted' man's weakness, reflecting the rigid gender norms of the time.
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