The Unseen Labor of a Male Housekeeper
A rare 1888 account reveals a 'male housekeeper' performing the exhaustive, often back-breaking daily labor typically expected of women, in a time when such roles were strictly gender-segregated.
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The spirit of the times brings to our attention the character of a 'male housekeeper,' as told in a sporting journal. Miss Lame Laura Wilson has accepted a position as general manager and editor of the series, and is a character unusual. Although a young lady, Wilson finds it necessary to keep house in a way that is truly remarkable. The account states she brings out the lighthearted character for which she is a handsome, even-tempered, and industrious individual. The men are at times, hale and hearty as the bravest peers. They and the sisters keep the markets. They at once perform the duty of every duty in other lands, the house, the oil, and the land. There is nothing to which the hardy woman will not turn her hand, that is, she is able to turn her hand to wood and dressing; a knot of the axe to win her daily bread, and all looks like wrinkled, old, and rather beaten, but better than worse.
“There is nothing to which the hardy woman will not turn her hand, that is, she is able to turn her hand to wood and dressing; a knot of the axe to win her daily bread.”
This rare historical snippet challenges our assumptions about 19th-century gender roles by surfacing an account of a man crossing into the domestic sphere of 'housekeeping' and 'market-keeping.' It echoes modern conversations about the invisible nature of domestic labor and the slow, often contentious, evolution of gendered work divisions in Seattle households.
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