The Widow's Swift Pivot
After a bridegroom gets cold feet on his wedding day, his bride wastes no time finding a replacement among the wedding guests.
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A bouncing young widow of twenty-five had agreed to marry 'No. 2,' as she playfully termed him, a year and a day from the demise of 'No. 1.' The ceremony was set for 6 p.m. at the bride's house, with sixty guests invited. In the forenoon, the groom went to invite country friends, but by afternoon, the bride received a letter stating he had 'conscientious scruples' about marrying a widow so soon. The widow did not faint; she served the feast anyway. During the dancing, an elderly bachelor who had opened the ball with her proposed and was accepted. The minister was recalled and the wedding solemnized at 11 p.m. Just as the ceremony concluded, the original suitor arrived, having overcome his scruples, only to find the widow already wed to another.
“The result of it all was that an elderly bachelor... became so enamored of her that, before the evening was far advanced, he had proposed, and, what was more, had been accepted.”
This story serves as a fascinating piece of 19th-century social theatre, where the rigid expectations of mourning and marriage collided with the agency of a woman refusing to let a ruined party stop her life. It mirrors the modern 'move on' culture while highlighting the high-stakes gossip economy of early Seattle society.
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