The Deserted Husband's Public Ultimatum
In a 1876 notice, Thomas Lilly takes to the press to publicly disavow his wife's debts after she leaves their home.
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NOTICE: My wife, Sabina Lilly, having left my bed and board without any just cause, I hereby give notice that I will not be responsible for any debts of her contracting, and I forbid any one furnishing her any money or goods on my account. — Thomas Lilly, Seattle, June 24, 1876.
“I hereby give notice that I will not be responsible for any debts of her contracting.”
Public notices in newspapers like this were the 19th-century version of changing one's status on social media or freezing a joint bank account. This 'notice of non-responsibility' reflects a time when a husband’s legal obligation for a wife's debts was a primary concern in domestic disputes, a stark echo of modern debates regarding financial autonomy and the lingering legal structures of marriage.
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