The Unilateral Disclaimer of a 19th-Century Marriage
Publicly declaring he would no longer be responsible for his wife's debts, Thomas Lilly placed this notice in the newspaper to formally signal a separation in pioneer Seattle.
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NOTICE: My wife, Sabina Lilly, having left my bed and board without any just cause, I hereby give notice that I will not be responsible for any debts of her contracting, and I forbid any one furnishing her any money or goods on my account. — THOMAS LILLY, Seattle, June 24, 1876.
“My wife, Sabina Lilly, having left my bed and board without any just cause, I hereby give notice that I will not be responsible for any debts of her contracting.”
This blunt, public 'elopement notice' was a common tool in the 19th century for husbands to attempt to legally shield themselves from the financial obligations of their wives. It highlights the stark gender power imbalance of the era, where a woman’s autonomy was often tethered to her husband's credit, and a public shaming was the standard method for ending a legal union.
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